Figuring things out

I have finally figured out some products my hair likes. I am 5 months post my last relaxer, and I am managing even better now because of the products I have already had but have not used together. I have always used coconut oil in my hair as a deep conditioner, never usually in styling because I have a fear going out in the cold and having it all harden in my hair. But since I don't go out much I decided to put some in my hair and seal it with shea butter; which I usually just use on my skin. These two together have really changed things in my washes and day to day hair care. My hair is softer and I don't have that soft feel but dry look. I am so happy for some progress, because the leave-in conditioner was not cutting it at all.